Tags » ‘law of attraction’July 23rd, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaMuch has been written and said concerning the so-called ‘law of attraction’. It has become popular through DVDs and bestselling books, like ‘The Secret’ and by television talk-show hosts such as Larry King. And yet most do not comprehend what the aforementioned ‘attraction’ actually means. Could it be that you can attract into your life the kind of good things that you crave? And, if that’s what it means, how can you actually put the ‘Law of Attraction’ into action to change your life for the better? The first thing to understand is that the ‘Law of Attraction’ is at work in your everyday life as you read these words. This may be a big surprise for you but what you need to understand is that the life you lead is a perfect mirror image of what’s happening in your head. Unfortunately, much of what’s rattling around in the normal person’s mind is doing them damage rather than good because, left on its own, the subconscious mind is both negative and focused in the past, constantly ‘enabling’ you – and that’s obviously not the correct word – to keep repeating all the learned ways of behaving that are, right now, creating your reality. To put it bluntly, as a result of the normal mind’s inner turmoil, it follows that the normal life is also in turmoil. It doesn’t matter if you know[spin] [spin]this or not, the ‘Law of Attraction’ is a reality in your life. I’m not convinced, from reading some of the reams of stuff – often misleading stuff – on the subject, that many will have fully grasped the extraordinary importance of this situation. But say that you have. You already understand that, to quote ‘The Secret’, your thoughts become things – what occupies your mind manifests in your life. Great, you’ve grasped this all-important concept intellectually – but intellectually understanding these facts and being able to get this ‘manifestation’ working for you, rather than against you, is a whole new ballgame. If you don’t deliberately take action each day to make certain that you’re in the right mental state, then it’s of no consequence how much you understand the way life works, you’re simply conning yourself into the wonderfully cosy misconception that this ‘Law of Attraction’ can change your life in a positive way. To really practice the so-called “Law of Attraction” you’re going to have to clear your mind. There’s no point trying to fill your mind with thoughts of things that you want – no one knows for sure what they truly want. Better still to fill your mind with the only place and time we are – the here and now. If you do that, you will drag your subconscious away from its obsession with all that’s negative. You will become extraordinarily focused – effective, efficient, inspired and inspirational. In a clear state of mind you will attract the very best in life, enabling you rise to places that normal people couldn’t even dream of. July 10th, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaOur universe, our world and our everyday lives operate like a huge energy-exchange machine. So says quantum physics – everything is simply energy and the most basic components are superstrings of energy. You’ve got trillions of superstrings of energy that combine into particles, molecules, cells which, all together, make up the physical you. To quote the physicist Brian Greene, your superstrings are just like violin strings – when they’re all in tune, life’s just like a beautiful symphony. But how often does that happen? More often than not your strings are out of tune and your everyday life sounds more like a second-rate crappy brass band! Forget the jargon of Personal Development, we even have expressions that describe how it feels to be ‘out of tune’ and, no coincidence, these generally refer to key centres in our body which ancient mysticism calls the key energy centres or ‘chakras’. Let me explain by way of example. If you’re nervous, you’ll feel like you have butterflies in your stomach – the physical manifestation of a state of mind. If you’ve something upsetting or unpalatable to say, you might experience a lump in your throat. If you’re feeling disenchanted you might have that sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach – a key energy centre often referred to by successful people when they talk about gut instinct or gut feel. And how come that nerves and upset can bring on a ‘tense nervous headache’? To put it bluntly, whether you’re aware of the scientific explanation or not, you are conscious that your state of mind creates these physical knock-on effects. Where am I going with this? Well, our normal state of mind, which psychology has concluded is negative, is the cause of all manner of ills and, most importantly, is the source of un-fulfilment in our everyday lives. The normal subconscious mind turns our energy inward – and, as a consequence – so that we end up sabotaging our best efforts. Sometimes we are all too consious of the consequences of a negative state of mind: low self esteem, poor self confidence, a general feeling of unease in certain circumstances, anxiety, stress (all the way up to panic) and depression. But these are the obvious examples of a more subtle and deeply-rooted problem. The inward focus of our energy means that we don’t have a sufficient amount of energy available to devote to what we should be doing right now and it is this ‘disability’ that keeps normal people within the confines of a normal, not-too-bad life. And as our universe and your life works on the basis of a return on the energy that you put into living now, with precious little investment comes little or no return. Little wonder that people lack fulfilment. You’ve got to stop this vicious circle of self destruction. You’ve got to start investing more energy in your life, by putting more of you into living in the present moment. Get going, right now, by taking a few minutes, sitting somewhere where you won’t be disturbed, closing your eyes and simply listening to what you hear around you. This will silence the constant noise in your head and drags your subconscious mind’s attention away from its negative, self-sabotaging obsession and enables you turn that inward energy out into a world that is simply waiting to respond to presence in the here and now. June 17th, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaSpecific skills need to be cultivated to achieve our goals. If we are too over confident, defeat can cripple us when we fail to achieve immediately. This is often because the person has no understanding of the meaning, purpose, or intentions of their lives. We’ll speak initially about qualities that we may be unaware of that can help us, and of emotions that might be getting in our way. We can then work out what it is we need to work on and what type of self improvement book we may need. Knowing which of our qualities are in need of improvement helps us to make a start on the effective goal setting that will help us fix it. Ask Questions: being curious or inquisitive is a life skill you should never suppress. When a person is curious, they inquire when questions require answers. Go as deep into the topic as you can and fully understand the things you do. If people think you are too nosy or ask too many questions assess whether your questions are appropriate. Is it your business? If it is, continue to be curious, it’s your life! Learning new things is a prime goal. Back off if people won’t help and learn from books. The Law of Attraction is only one aspect of self improvement books, many more actually focus on specific life skills that need to be developed. Perhaps you are too aggressive and lack self-control, you may need to read a self improvement book on anger management.There are self improvement books for a wide variety of categories. Focus your attention. Write down focal points to centre your interest. Purpose and meaning makes it easier to focus. Focusing helps you to capture opportunities and act on them. Read about the 80:20 rule, it suggests you should focus on the 20% that is important as the other 80% has little value. Effective people are capable of focusing on completing one thing at a time. Flitting between tasks and completing nothing is ineffective, even though you work just as hard doing it. Time management self improvement books often recommend you also learn to meditate. Always be willing. If you are defeated before you start, how can you ever win? People who are willing to face each new challenge confront problems and solve them. Facing fears about moving from comfort zones can actually help to decrease anxiety. Being willing to change defeatist or negative thoughts means you can just get on with it and get things done. You may not be certain to succeed but move forward anyway, with as much enthusiasm as you can muster. Look for self improvement books on positive mental attitudes or removing negative thinking. Be Organized: The ability to organize is a great skill that helps to set your goals. Being organized means you can put your goals in order, by systematizing, arranging, and sorting them out. The process is not just about planning, its also about self-knowledge. Sort out your goals so you can plan the steps to achieve them. Prioritize essential goals and tackle them first. Some people set the steps for their goals in time frames of daily, weekly, monthly, yearly and 5 yearly. Self improvement books on life planning and setting and achieving goals detail this skill. Getting it done now is motivation, leaving it till tomorrow is procrastination. There is no need to be a workaholic. When you are fresh and energetic it is time to act. Don’t stress yourself out trying to achieve too much. Workaholics neglect the people who are important to them and may find that achieving their goals loses them something far more important, their family. Always take time out for people. Increasing your income is the only way to achieve many financial goals you may have. If procrastination is a genuine problem – your first goal is to solve this. Self improvement books about motivation and making things happen are useful tools only if you follow their guidance. There are also some great self hypnosis CDs available on motivation and overcoming procrastination. Read a self improvement book. It can mean the difference between achieving something you really desire or just endlessly letting things happen to you. Achieving something you really desire brings great joy and excitement. People can be happy and content with lives that have not gone the way they hoped. People can achieve their goals and be miserable. Neither misery or happiness is the goal or the achievement, these emotions depend on other factors. Isn’t that rush of elation worth more than anything else in the world? When setting your goals, put joy at the top of the list, it will help you evaluate your other choices. Reach out for your hearts desire and if you need to read a book to achieve it, go read a book. Shortcut to vital things to know in the sphere of emotional freedom technique training – please make sure to read the web page. The time has come when concise info is truly at your fingertips, use this opportunity. June 16th, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaThe secret law of attraction simply need to be revealed in your life to make it less difficult and using the law of attraction may be put to your perfect advantage. Many of us are tormented by the fact that getting the abundance we dream of seem really hard to achieve. Sometimes we feel that fate is not on our side and that whatever action or decision we make end up futile. In our quest to that dream life, we often stumble upon several inspirational teachings that promise to take us where we dream of being in. However, not all of these promises are really true. We need to wise up in our judgment and be opened to the true universal laws. The universal laws are numerous. The laws of attraction, among others had been there for centuries now however only a few of us really take the time to know the secret laws of attraction, not realizing that this could be the answer to our long-sought “heaven on earth”. The kind of life we really want can be ours if we believe it. Anything our heart desires, our mind should accept as true. Using the law of attraction is encouraged by many inspirational and motivational coaches proving that this is one effective tool. But the bigger question is, how do we use this effectively? In using the law of attraction we should have the positive attitude. Maintaining a positive outlook makes claiming it easier. Ever notice that sometimes in the middle of wanting something you stop and have that urge to give up because of seemingly too many hurdles to take? Well, if you have the positive attitude, facing all obstacles would not be a problem. Giving up in the middle of the fight is no way to winning anything and you are only using the law of attraction in vain. Another secret to fighting the urge to give up is to set your eyes on your goal. The secret laws of attraction necessitate you to have that perfect focus. Losing that focus only leads you to go astray. Never allow yourself to be sidetracked from your real goal or you might end up using the law of attraction inefficiently again. Being oriented with the proper “visualization” is another key. For the fulfillment of your dream through the secret law of attraction, you have to be able to put it into a more concrete vision, thus needing effective visualization. Make a mental picture of what you want in all aspects of your life. Do not be embarrassed to aspire for things that you might even reason impossible. Remember that it can all be yours so long as you keep that faith in yourself and in the works of the universe. Visualization is helpful in using the law of attraction especially when you know how to, from the conditioning of your mind, attitude up to the creation of a specific vision board for yourself. Finally, while using the law of attraction, keep moving forward no matter what and the secret laws of attraction shall surely work for you! And if you want to learn more about these principles, you can grab some resources from this site: Follow this link: How to Use the Secret Law of Attraction? June 15th, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaDo you want to make your dreams a reality? You might have watched ‘The Secret’ or heard of the Law of Attraction before. Here are some Law of Attraction techniques that will help you effectively create the life you are looking for. These methods have personally helped me change my life around and bring joy into my life. First, you need to create the “have it now” feeling. In the Law of Attraction, you should believe and act as if you possess what you desire right now. This Law of Attraction technique will make you feel wonderful instantly and help you visualize the feeling of success in manifesting your desires. Locate a quiet area where you can close your eyes and focus on what you want. Begin by going for a walk, walk around your neighborhood, anywhere really. Make believe that you have already succeeded in manifesting your desires. If you want money or Love, just pretend that you’re a currently a millionaire or already in your ideal relationship. Just visualize that your desires in life have been handed to you. Imagine the feeling of financial stability, a lover’s gentle kiss on your forehead before you go to bed at night or even the sea breeze caressing your neck off the shore of Thailand. Visualize how it would feel as if you’re living the life you want right now. You need to get your frame of mind on the same level of bliss as if you achieved every goal you’ve made. I feel contentment and peace every time I apply this Law of Attraction technique. When I have do this, I feel there nothing is left to struggle for in life. Instead your left with joy and happiness. This Law of Attraction technique can also help you figure out what your priorities are, what you need to focus on and how important it is to you. This Law of Attraction technique is an eye opener and will help you visualize more effectively. Second, be thankful for what you have. I know that the simplest things in life like a having a relaxing morning while drinking your coffee can be taken for granted. Being grateful is an essential factor when using the Law of Attraction. You’re telling the Universe “Thank you for allowing me to be so fortunate in life” when you show gratitude. The Universe then will begin to give you more things to be grateful for. One of the easiest ways to cultivate the feelings of gratitude is to have a gratitude journal. Write 5 things that you’re thankful for. You’ll learn that you can be grateful for just about anything there is in your life. One time I wrote about how grateful I was that I caught the bus and wasn’t late for work. The next day I wrote down I was grateful for missing the bus because it gave me the chance to listen to read my book while I waited for the next bus. This Law of Attraction technique is quite effective. The third Law of Attraction Technique is to take the first step. A lot of people hesitate on taking action to achieve their goal because they don’t have an executable plan. Don’t let this stop you. People who took the first step towards their goals didn’t have a full plan either. Just take the first step and be receptive to what opportunities come you way. Keep in mind that all the traffic lights in your life won’t turn green at once. You can take the first step and see what the Universe will bring you. The Universe limitless, but there will be times it won’t give you the exactly what you’re asking for. Be flexible and adapt accordingly to your new circumstance. This of Law of Attraction technique is essential to being receptive to what the Universe will give you. You’ll begin to see some tangible results in your life once you apply these three Law of Attraction techniques. Whatever your desires are in life are, you can achieve them with the help of the Law of Attraction. Just have the courage and faith that you are the creator of your reality. Felicia Fillmore used to believe that life was a challenging struggle until she applied the Universe Laws to her own life. She wanted to share thoughts about the Universe Laws to help enhance other people’s life. If you found this article to be helpful, and you want to take the required action make your dreams a reality, also check out Secret to LOA, and Master the Secret. Article Source:
http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Felicia_Fillmore Link: 3 Secret Law of Attraction Techniques to Help You Succeed June 15th, 2010 by selfimprovementmommaOne of the most common questions and complaints that I run across with people learning the law of attraction is, they don’t seem to be able to get the hang of being able to manifest money with the law of attraction. While money is not the only thing that you can learn to attract with the law of attraction, it tends to be about the number one reason why people get so interested in learning about the law of attraction. You have to understand that there is no magic money that is going to just end up getting deposited into your bank account or your wallet. While it is an interesting thought, you will pretty much never find anyone that just has money magically appear into their lives without some reason for it manifesting. Here is a quick law of attraction lesson on being able to manifest money: 1) Write down an exact amount of money that you would like to have manifest. If you need to, think small at this point, when you are starting out. Some will say a $ 20 bill is good, while others will recommend $ 100. Whatever it is, write it down and look at it long enough to get a mental imprint of the amount that you want to be able to attract or manifest. 2) Start to focus on HOW you can bring that amount of money into your life. Don’t just think about lottery wins, contests or any other forms of chance to manifest money. Think about the skills that you possess, the things that you can do, the services that you can provide for others, etc. Many people get bogged down trying to win contests and lotteries with the law of attraction, and they forget about the many more practical ways that they can manifest money. 3) FEEL how good and happy it will make you to know that you can manifest money with the law of attraction. Feelings and the way that you feel about money are important with both the law of attraction and your ability to manifest money. If it feels good, you are much more likely to attract it, as this is what you really want. A lot of people have bad feelings attached to money and they push away the possibility of being able to manifest more money. This is just the start, but you have to start somewhere if you really want to manifest money with the law of attraction. It’s not just going to appear from the clouds above unless you do something to make it manifest. View post: Law of Attraction Lesson – How to Manifest Money | |